Ask Bobby
The LGBTQ+ directory for support and community.
Ask Bobby is a free, nationwide UK directory connecting LGBTQ+ people with affirming community groups, support services and social spaces – from therapists specialising in queer experiences to inclusive sports teams, creative groups and mental health support. It’s named in loving memory of Strictly Come Dancing’s Robin Windsor, known as Bobby to his friends.
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At Arcus, we pride ourselves on being a nationwide LGBT+ counselling service, but our doors are open to everyone, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.
World and community news with a bi+ focus
Big Gay Out (BGO) is a community for gay, bi, trans, and queer men who want fun, connection, and friendship beyond the party scene.
BiPhoria is a social-support organisation for bi people in Manchester and North West England which has been making bi space and giving bis voice since 1994.
Across Rainbows C.I.C., operating as bobu, offers an LGBTQ+ Safety Toolkit and workshops, providing practical skills to navigate hostile environments, discrimination, and microaggressions. Its 'bobuSHIFT' tool empowers individuals with immediate responses—Feel It, Read It, Own It—to confidently act, speak up, or leave challenging situations. The service is dedicated to fostering emotional safety and preparedness within the community.
Chantel Holistic Wellbeing and the Unapologetically You Meetup Group create safe, inclusive spaces for LGBTQIA+ individuals to heal, grow, and reconnect with their true selves.
Allowing everyone to have a place to grow and enjoy a sporting environment.
Controlling Chemsex is the only national charity specialised in chemsex, run by specialist advisors with lived experience.
We offer ADHD coaching and personalized support designed to help neurodivergent individuals shine. We can help you overcome challenges like brain fog, overwhelm, and difficulties with executive functioning, empowering you to navigate daily life with confidence
I provide long and short-term talk therapy, counselling and coaching online. Working from a GSRD and Neurodivergent affirmative approach.
We exist to SUPPORT, CONNECT, and REPRESENT LGBT Military Personnel and Veterans
Gay & Tonic! is a vibrant community in Brighton, Hove & Beyond, dedicated to creating safe and inclusive spaces for gay, bi, trans men, and nonbinary people to connect and thrive without alcohol or substances.
Gaymers iNC. is the UKs biggest LGBTQ+ gaming community. Our mission is to bring gamers and geeks together and make lasting friendships!
gayns is a social wellness brand for gay and queer people offering events, primarily focussed around movement, that foster connection and community.
Glynda is a wellbeing and support platform for those wanting support with Chemsex
Herefordshire Mind is a local mental health charity offering support and fighting for the corner of individuals facing mental health challenges in Herefordshire. They provide various groups and services, ensuring no one has to face a mental health problem alone.
Join HOMOPARODY at their fierce, fun and fabulous weekly dance classes for the LGBTQIA+ community. We also organise social meet up’s, cabaret entertainment and performance opportunities.
Impulse London is a volunteer-led organisation engaging gay men and the wider lgbtq+ community through events, advocacy, and meaningful connection. We are united by a mission to engage, support, and connect queer men while championing sexual health, mental health, substance use awareness, and social justice.
Intercom Trust is a community-led charity that aims to build a South West region where LGBTQ+ people are celebrated and live with real equality.
A peer-led community initiative creating welcoming spaces for Gay, Bi, Trans, and Queer men to meet, connect, and support one another. We focus on inclusion, social connection, and mental health awareness through real-life events.
Lambeth Links is the forum for Lambeth's LGBTQ+ community, acting as a central point of rallying, communication and advocacy. We work collaboratively with fellow organisations and councils to 'link' our community with events, services, resources and more.
LGBT HERO is the national health and wellbeing charity dedicated to uplifting and supporting LGBTQ+ people. Every month we support over 100,000 people with trusted information, advice, and support.
London Friend has been supporting the mental health and wellbeing of the LGBTQ+ community in London since 1972.
At the Mulwade Foundation, our mission is to create lasting, positive change by assisting and empowering individuals living with HIV. We do this through raising awareness and challenging HIV-related stigma, and through a combination of strategic partnerships, innovative programs, and an unwavering commitment to address one of the most pressing social and educational challenges of our time.
Not A Phase is a trans-led, nationwide charity committed to uplifting and improving the lives of trans+ adults in the UK through community, awareness campaigns, and social projects. They're dedicated to creating a thriving, supportive space for the trans+ and gender non-conforming community.
Off Beat Therapy provides counselling with a focus on the impact of oppression, otherness, discrimination and hate crimes.
Connecting you with skilled, affirming therapists who understand LGBTQIA+ identities, gender exploration and diverse relationship structures.
Positive Eats provides a range of HIV support services including counselling, peer support, benefit advice and HIV/STI testing.
Positively UK offers peer-led support, advocacy, and information to empower individuals living with HIV to effectively navigate every aspect of their diagnosis, care, and life with HIV.
We take Queer History of London walking tours from Charing Cross to Soho. We also provide company in house talks and Q&As.
We are Queer Men's Fitness, a trans-inclusive peer-led health and fitness WhatsApp online community that offers a free evidence based advice, hints and tips via healthy and good intentioned peer-to-peer discussions.
Queer Minds is a peer support group for LGBTQIA+ people (aged 18+) who live, work or play in Lambeth and Southwark. This group is by us, for us and is for those who are looking to connect with others and get support for their mental health.
We organise in person events for people interested in becoming parents through platonic coparenting so you can learn more about it and meet others.
We’re a national organisation for disabled LGBTQI+ People, campaigning on their issues and providing information and online social events.
Rooted & Rising is a therapeutic process group created by and for transgender and gender-diverse individuals seeking connection, healing and growth in a safe, affirming space.
ROXPROUD is a collective of LGBTQ+ hybrid athletes breaking the barriers in the hybrid racing world. Race Loud. Race Proud.
Mental health and wellbeing workshops for FREE, FOREVER, FOR THE PUBLIC in the UK and worldwide online. FREE tea and coffee. Free yoga. Free community.
Online Trained, Qualified & Accredited Coach supporting LGBTQ+ people with substance, alcohol, chemsex and lifestyle issues
To teach LGBTQIA people to line dance. To create a welcoming social environment for people who love to dance.
The London LGBTQ+ Community Centre is a sober, intersectional community centre and café where all LGBTQ+ people are welcome, supported, can build connections and can flourish. Our vision is for a more connected, belonging and thriving LGBTQ+ community in London.
The OutHouse is an Essex-based charity that provides support, community engagement, counselling, and training for LGBTQ+ individuals throughout Essex, helping them to find community and reach their full potential. It aims to be a beacon of light for the LGBTQ+ community.
London LGBTQ+ Weightlifting Club offering scalable muscle-building classes open to all fitness levels.
Voda is a mental health app designed by and for LGBTQIA+ people, offering affirming mental health support for every LGBTQIA+ experience.
Grounded in community care, healing and development principles, 'Creating Space' is about collective learning, connection and growth.
WODProud is a non-profit LGBTQ+ CrossFit community based in London, dedicated to fostering strength, connection, and pride through fitness events and mental health support.
You Are Loved CIC creates safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people to connect, share, and support each other, fighting the silent epidemic of premature deaths from suicide and drugs. They also provide a directory called Ask Bobby, connecting people to community initiatives.
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